It is often that we hear that whenever a woman in our society becomes a widow or gets divorce, her life ends. Contrary to what our religion taught us, our society despises women who are left by their husbands or who decide to leave an abusive marriage for their own betterment.
Mahiya sensation and famous Pakistani pop singer Annie Khalid faced a similar situation. After escaping an abusive marriage in 2012, Annie Khalid was blessed with lovely man who she married in 2014. Seeing Annie’s life, the couple seems deeply in love.
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Annie celebrated her wedding anniversary by sharing pictures of the couple on her Instagram account. Not so surprisingly, people started bashing her and the fact that she got re-married. However, the “Pakistani Britney Spears” felt no shame in addressing this situation and shared a very emotional message:
“So I’m writing this post with tears in my eyes because I am sick and tired of the abuse I get on social media for my second marriage. YES I married AGAIN! Why do people write ” how many times you gonna get married” “kitni dafa shadi karo gi” “maneater” “vulgar woman” “wahiyaat aurat” What sin have I committed?
Our religion permits us to marry again after being divorced, our beautiful Hazrat Khadijah was married 3 times, her third marriage was to Prophet Muhammad PBUH. Who is better than her? Who is better than Our beloved Prophet Muhammad PBUH? NOBODY. What bullshit Pakistani culture we have where divorcee women are scandalised and stigmatised in our society.
They become “black sheep” or “damaged goods”. At the time of the Sahaba, men would stand in line to marry divorced women because they knew of the immense reward it was in the eyes of God. But in our day & age we are instead ostracised and looked down upon. You men who comment under my posts have some shame, nobody wants their marriage to break, but if it does then what can you do? Would you be happier to see me alone and unhappy? Would that make you happy? What hurts the most is seeing women say horrible things too. I would expect girls to be more empathetic and understanding but how SAD that you also hurt me with your brutal comments. Remember, this could happen to your mother or your sister, this could even happen to YOU.
I am sorry for this long post but I had to speak up not just for myself but for all the girls out there who have been divorced. Can I also add how I always read that it must have been My FAULT, something bad I must have done got me divorced. Why is the girl always blamed, WHY? Thank you to my husband Saad who married me knowing my past and not once brought it up or used it against me. Instead loves me unconditionally for who I am and not what I am. Ok I feel better now. Peace”
Annie Khalid is not just blessed with a happy marriage – she recently gave birth to a beautiful baby girl.
