"If You Want Our marriage To Work, I Will Always Have Sex With You,

“If You Want Our marriage To Work, I Will Always Have Sex With You, But With One Or More Boys With Me”

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In Islam, a marriage is a legal contract between two people. Also known as Nikah in Arabic, it is an act of Sunnah in Islam and is strongly recommended. But these days, the meaning has changed and in most of the cases, in our patriarchal society, marriage is considered as only a man’s forte, where he is allowed to take any sort of decision for himself and his wife, because he has done Nikah with her and that gives him “full authority” and “custodianship” of his wife to him, which is incorrect because Islam is all about free will, balance, and freedom.

Recently, we received this shocking story by a girl who was asked to provide “sexual benefits” to the friends of her own husband, right after she got into Nikah with him, because her husband used to force her. More to that, her husband used to force her to perform “threesome” with him and his friend and kept blackmailing her to do so. For people to know, a threesome is an act where “three” people sexually participate with each other – something that Islam strictly condemns.

Following are the words that she shared:

“I want to share my real story with you and make other girls aware about this. I was a very innocent, homely girl. The girl who didn’t even know clearly about the word ‘sex’… But this one word changed my whole life. I was studying back then when I was 23 years old, and my daddy said, ‘beta it’s the right time to get you married off’, I said to him that ‘main to bohat choti hoon abhi and I want to study further’.

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‘Well, my daddy soon got a proposal for me from ______. The boy belonged to Pakistan and was there in _____ due to his job. His family also lived in ______ while few of his relatives were based in Pakistan. His family asked my daddy for nikah and at first, he said okay and finally; we both got nikahofied and that time, he was 33 years old whereas I was 23 years old only. I happily said ‘daddy, yes’ as I never said no to him before and I couldn’t say it now either.

My family was everything for me. But the day I got into nikah with him was the last day of my happiness. His mother said to my daddy that they just want a simple nikah event… and rukhsati after six months. So they came over to my home with some of their relatives and I signed the nikahnama. After nikah, his mother asked my daddy for permission for my husband and i be allowed to talk, as Islam allows a husband wife to talk to each other.

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So we started talking on the phone… I was happy, as every girls dream is to find her soul mate… Buhatt se khwab dekhy they for a happy life with my in-laws… I daily spoke to my mother in law on the phone as my husband wanted this… I did all that he asked and I did it happily… We never met after nikah only spoke through phone calls… Before our marriage date had to get confirmed he came to Pakistan… in these six months my daddy passed away suddenly… but I still stayed strong…

One day after coming to Pakistan just before one or two months of our Rukhsati, he called me and said I want to meet you outside. I said no I can’t. He said, ‘tumhara dil nahi chahta k hum milen?’ I said, ‘I want to, but after our Rukhsati’, he then directly said to me that ‘I want to have sex with you and I want to have threesome sex’. I asked, ‘threesome kya hota hai?’

He said, ‘I always wished for this with my wife. If you agree, my friend who is in Pakistan these days please can join us, come we can all have sex’… I said, ‘shame on you… I am your wife to complete half of your deen. You’re asking me to commit a great sin… I will die but I will not participate in this sin’… he then proceeded to say, ‘miss, you have to do this throughout our Life with me. I will arrange sex workers for us. They will relax you.’ I said, ‘please don’t say that. I was feeling as if my whole world just ended during this conversation.

I said, ‘please, I love you as my husband, please don’t say this. Say you’re kidding me’, he said, ‘no I am serious. Make up your mind. If you want our marriage, you have to do this. I will always have sex with you with one or more boys with me.’ I said, ‘it’s a sin, my Islam doesn’t allow me or you to do this.’ One month mein ne usey bohatt samjhaya. But he said no. I told him I will tell your mom, your family, and my family, he threatened me that he will say you’re the one who wants this.. you are willing to have such sex with me and another guy. I requested him, ‘I am a muslimah. Please, I want to be like other Pakistan girl’s who have a simple, happy married life. Don’t put me in this sin…’”

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Cutting this short, this girl finally ended her marriage with that psychopath and is now currently living her life all alone. But when she recalls this experience of her marriage with him, she states:

“Many times I thought to tell this stuff to his mother. All the truth about him so wo kisi aur larki se dobara nikaah ya shadii karke ye sub na karay, uski life na barbaad karey but my mother stops me every time saying that he can harm you, just be quiet, forget everything and move forward.”

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