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You have no idea how much agonizing it is to hold a mass into your tummy for 9 months. Nobody could even predict the mental and physical anguish at the time of delivering a child without entering into motherhood. And the after effects of having a baby, all the restless nights and distressed days; the mother works day in and day out just to raise her baby. Later, she starts working on you to make responsible human being. That’s her goal.
And sooner she gets what she is digging for. Her grown-up son is now “the Maximus” (greatest), with the glorious personality, full of intellect and wisdom. But the irony is; now this practical, professional, successful, strengthened, financially strong man has no time to spend with his mother.
He comes to home but he is busy on his laptop. He talks to her but simultaneously chats on Facebook; he never delays his office work but postpones his mother’s work list. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love her, he does, but he starts to take her for granted. He thinks she is with her always and she understands.
But contrary to that, she would not be with us always. Her black hair is turning to gray. She is aging and now it’s time to multiply your attention, love, and affection
Here are some highly effective tips to make her feel more special and more loved.
1) Gifting Without Any Occasion
Trust me it works. I am not saying to buy expensive gifts, just flower bracelet would make her so happy that you’d be left surprised. Even bringing her favorite fruit or cuisine would be sufficient to blossom her cheeks.
2) Meet Her First, After Coming Home
Remember she greeted you when you came back from school, now it’s your time to greet those waiting eyes. Remember how she used to ask about how everything went at school? Now it is your time to share the whole story with her, she loves to listen your voice after all.
3) Could You Please Put Your Cell Phone Aside:
While talking to her never hold cell phone, it’s not your oxygen cylinder.
4) Listen To Her Eagerly:
When she talks, be more active and participative. Give her suggestions even if she never asks for it.
5) Crack Jokes When She Is Annoyed:
Crack a nasty joke or do anything which makes her laugh when she’s annoyed. Or you can try hugging her, I think it’ll work.
6) Tell Her 24/7 That You Are Nothing Without Her:
Keep telling her that whatever you are today, it is just because of her. Ask her to forgive you for your mistakes. Tell her to pray for your success. Scatter your love around her she could feel the love and warmth she deserves from her child.
7) Be High Alert, When She Is In Seek Of Anything:
This is a way to win much prayer, whenever you find your mom in trouble, make a handful effort to solve her query.
8) Respond Instantly When She Calls You:
Don’t ignore her. When she calls you, respond instantly. Don’t make her wait.
9) Make Her Feel Special In Parties
Always serve her food especially when you are in a gathering. This will make her feel proud of you. Always stand next to her in a crowd so that she could feel more strong and secure.
Do all these “dos” and see how her powerful, mighty prayers would turn all the dimensions and dramatics of your life.