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Ok, what we need to understand is the fact that the world is not black and white. It is grey. It is all grey. There isn’t one right answer. There are alot of answers. Each one right in one way or another when it comes to life cause you gotta survive until you can’t and then your story is over. Your choices just another failed experiment. There is no right answer to what life is or how it should be spent, there are good and bad answers, less and more effective answers though.
Life is a journey and death is the destination. It’s certainly not true that you can go through everything alone, there’s no doubt that you can survive it, you will, you will survive until the day you want and you’ll lose the fight to the death. But you CAN go through everything on your own, doesn’t mean you have to. The whole point of having friends and family is that you SHOULDN’T have to through everything on own.
You don’t deserve to suffer alone. No one deserves to suffer alone and your family, your friends, people who claim to love you have a responsibility to never let you suffer alone just as you have a responsibility to never let people you love suffer alone. It takes courage to love, and trust and relay. Only a coward wants to do everything on his own when he’s afraid of the possibilities, afraid of the unknown, afraid to explore the less definite outcomes.
It’s our choices that make us who we are, far more than our abilities – J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter And The Chamber Of Secrets.
Life is a chance for anything and everything, whatever you make of it. I just can’t believe people think they’re supposed to fight alone. We are supposed to do it together, fight the darkness, out of everyone’s life, we are supposed to fight the wrong each other, for each other, help each other up. We don’t find ourselves. We create ourselves, We cannot find because there’s nothing to find unless we create it. I didn’t want to believe it. We are who we choose to be.
Friends and family are not a backup plan, to come back to in case you fall, they are there to make sure you don’t fall at all. And Sweetheart, don’t take life too hard, it’s hard enough on its own, don’t encourage the pressure. Understand that you are gonna mess up the life no matter what you do. I’ve never seen a person who doesn’t believe that his or her life is a mess, People with no regrets don’t exist, no matter how closely you follow the book, it’s still gonna be a mess. So just make sure that it’s the mess that you enjoy. The path you choose is all you get, the destination is death. Life is the journey. Your only purpose in life is to help as much humanity as possible and do whatever makes you happy. And if it doesn’t make you happy, it’s not worth it.
We owe everything to the people we love, we owe them love and support and care but only things we don’t owe to anyone is the explanation on our looks, our passion, our dreams, our religious beliefs, what we wanna study and who-who we want to spend rest of our lives with. Cause these are the things we owe to ourselves.
And trust me, no amount of money or fame or pride can make you happier than those carefree moments of talking whatever, laughing and knowing that it’s ok because you are actually loved unconditionally and accepted. No boat is gonna take us away unless we change choose to sail it in that direction.