You are in front of her, she’s in front of you. Your eyes meet her’s, her eyes meet yours. Finally, it is the moment you have been waiting for. Finally, the girl you had been crushing over since the past 534543 days notices you.
Could it be real? Could it be true? IS IT FINALLY HAPPENING? Is she finally going to be the mother of the kids you plan to have with her?
Umm, I guess not. It was just one of those daydreams. Again.
When Cupid lands his lethal blow on someone, it is hard to get over them, especially when they are your crush for so long that you can’t even imagine what your day would be like without seeing them.
All the time, the only thing you do is just stare at them like a creepy stalker and wish they’d notice you. It is about time you did something about it. Simply put, you need to do something that will get you their attention. Staring at them or liking their 30 weeks old Instagram picture won’t do you any good.
So what to do?
1. Always Dress To Impress
Sure, looks are not everything, but dressing your best every day will surely give you an edge of getting the attention of your crush. Also, confidence — confidence that what you’re wearing is bringing out the best of you.
After all, who doesn’t look at a guy who knows how to pull of fashion and knows how to dress well?
2. Make Her Laugh- Have a Sense of Humor
It is true that girls like a man who makes them laugh. I am not saying become a joker, jeez. If you think you have a good sense of humor and can make people around you laugh or crack jokes when your crush is around, you will definitely get the attention of the person you want.
3. Start Conversations Related to Mutual Things
“Actions speak louder than words” and this is the case where both, action and words, are used to get the attention of your crush.
Start a conversation with your crush, but it needs to be done in a very subtle manner. Talk about mutual things, like an assignment, exam or office work. But remember, whatever you do, DO NOT TALK TOO MUCH.
4. Just be Yourself
Your friends may tell you “ye try kar, bachi zaroor phass jaye gy“. But there is no need to do any of that. Just be yourself. Do you not want someone to look at you just by seeing how you actually are?
Just be yourself, since everyone else is already taken. Yeah, Oscar Wilde said that.
5. Compliment them but don’t go overboard
Being too corny at the beginning can be a huge turn-off for a majority of girls. They might think you are a creep who’s obsessed with them. So why not keep it natural, interesting and non-cliched?
6. Always keep the conversations interesting
So, go on. Risk it. Try these methods and give it your all. Remember when you are trying to woo your crush, there’s nothing to lose and everything to gain.