Breakup and heartbreaks – two of the most painful experiences probably no one wants to experience. You give yourself so much to someone and in just one moment, they break you. Brick by brick, you make yourself again. Piece by piece, you gather the broken, shattered pieces of your heart, making a shield, caging yourself and your emotions.
The psychology behind heartbreak and breakups vary person to person. However, what doesn’t vary is the fact that people who go through such traumatically emotional events (trust me, people are deeply effected) always find ways to deal with breakups.
On a lighter note, we desi people try extremely crazy things. Sure, the goras can go on a traveling spree and sleep with other people as “rebound”. But we? We try to keep it halaal. :’)
If you’ve ever had a breakup or a heartbreak that deeply effected, you surely would’ve done:
1. Getting A New Hairstyle
Seeking change in ourselves and in our lives, New Hair-New Me is a perfect way.
2. Dying Your Hair
Its all about the change and being out in the game, man. Hehe.
3. Body Transformation
Because they need to show their former lovers what a great mistake they made by leaving them. No wonder why your ex girlfriend/boyfriend is way outta your league now because they went through the phase of body transformation.
4. Watch Loads Of Seasons And Movies
5. Sheesha And Smoking New Favz
Because in the mind, these two releases stress and helps healing the pain… Sigh.
6. Nonstop Eating
Because food is a happy place and food keeps us happy.
7. Use Weird Social Media Apps And Sh*T
Again, anything that kills time, they’ll do it. Even if it revolves talking to unknown guys who pretend to be girls…
8. Getting A New Hobby
Because they are just clueless on what to do, they try everything possible.
9. Becoming A Workaholic
Because if you can’t find love, better just start making loads of money.
10. Listening To Emotional Songs And Qawwali
In all seriousness, trust me when I say this: these all sound crazy habits for now but in the long run, they shape you for the best. Never avoid doing them. Follow your gut and see where it takes you. 😉 😉