9 Struggles of Being The Eldest Sibling

1. All The Spanking

You get all the spanking from your parents , your parents have exhausted all their energies over you, so your younger siblings don’t get much and are spoiled like hell. This makes them stronger both emotionally and physically.


3. Source Of Inspiration

You are being copied by your younger siblings. Your first crush , your favorite hero, your hair style, everything is copied . You are born with this annoying fan club and Paparazzi flash bugs who follow you everywhere a.k.a siblings.


3. You Get The Lion’s Share

You get the lion’s share in everything, be it Biryani , Eidi or Pocket Money but when it gets to the point of responsibility, again you have most vital role.


4. You Live Your Parent’s Dreams

You go to college your parents could not go. You choose a career your parents always wanted to… and you marry with their consent in a marriage hall of their choice, in a dress they chose for you, but your youngest siblings will most likely get all the freedom in the world because you have granted all your parents’ wishes.

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5. Trained to be a C.E.O

Some surveys shows that most C.E.O of companies in USA  are eldest in their family. It makes sense as they get all burden of responsibilities.

In this April 20, 2007 file photo provided by the University of Illinois Athletic Department, Illinois businessman Shahid Khan is seen at the groundbreaking of the Khan Outdoor Tennis Center at the University of Illinois in Champaign, Ill. The Jacksonville Jaguars have reached an agreement to sell the small-market franchise to Khan. Majority owner Wayne Weaver made the announcement Tuesday, Nov. 29, 2011, hours after he fired coach Jack Del Rio and gave general manager Gene Smith a three-year contract extension. Weaver called Khan "a great American success story" and said the Pakistan-born entrepreneur will keep the team in Jacksonville. (AP Photo/University of Illinois Athletic Department)

6. You Are Trained To Be A Leader

You like to be in control, you are good at decision making , you have discipline in your life , you are tough and you fight with your own fears and emotions . You are more prone to follow your brain rather than your heart .


7. You Are The Best Genetic Combination

Some research shows that eldest kid are most intelligent among their sibling because they get most attention and care .


8. First , First ,First

First love , first crush , first salary , first job , first wedding night and first kiss have special place. Likewise, you are the first kid of your parents, it’s the feeling they can’t forget . You have a special place in their hearts that can’t be shared by anyone else, may it be your own younger siblings.


9. Closeness

Some eldest kids are very close to their parents, have a very special bond. They rely on them and make them a part of every crucial decision. Same goes for siblings…. younger siblings might tease you, annoy you, and taunt you… but they will always look upto you.


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