Every guy in a relationship hits a rough patch sometime or the other. It could be because there are some tiny little issues and fights that arise, could be because you just don’t feel in sync with your significant other.
That’s not to say you have to end the relationship, or that you even messed up in the first place!
While every relationship and person in one are different, there are definitely some typical things people forget to do which create rifts between couples. But if you make sure to cover these few important points in your relationship, you have better chances of having fewer fights and having a smooth(er) sailing relationship!
1. Are you trustworthy?
You could keep saying you love her but it will not touch her heart. She will be emotionally moved only when she realizes she can trust you blindly. She will give you some chances by herself to prove it, all you need is to keep an eye and avail the right moment.
2. Choose her over everything
A girl needs someone who is sound and confident in his choices. She needs to be reminded that she is the best choice and she can never be replaced. You need to assure her that no matter what, you will choose her under all circumstances. A girl hates the whole coward-thing.
3. How nicely you treat her best friend matters!
A girl is committed to her best friend way before you! She has been her partner in crime, her love and her everything before you.
You need to make sure you treat her best friend the best, that’s the time you can really impress her! Just make sure you don’t exceed...it can turn the table!
4. How do you talk about her parents?
You need to respect her parents as you respect yours. She will talk about her parents in front of you, and will expect you to listen and respond the same in kind to how she feels. She may be cheesy with them, but you have to get over it. They gave her life, after all!
5. You have to take her career seriously!
Never tell a girl that her career is just a matter of choice, this will bring you totally down on her list. What you can and should do, is talk with her about her dreams and career, and she will love the talks, and you for it too.
6. You should not be an egoist
She will lower her ego for you many times if you really matter to her, but she expects the same. If you bring your ego between you and her, she will step back. When it comes to it, she will compromise her ego and will also like you to set you ego aside when it’s her.
7. Ask her about little things
“What display picture should I put on FB ?“
“Was this movie good or should I not go see it?“
She will love it! Sharing stuff and finding out about your significant other’s opinion is very important in any relationship. Keep open communication and you’ll find you have a happier, funnier relationship with your girl.